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Discover Your Squeeze Conditions

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Why Work Becomes Harder to Navigate

Modern work doesn’t get harder because people stop trying.
It gets harder to navigate when systems ask people to operate inside unresolved tensions. Priorities compete.
Decisions stall. Roles blur. Expectations multiply. The work itself isn’t the issue.


The issue is that people are still expected to perform as if the system will provide clear direction, even when it doesn’t.

When structure no longer holds steady, people adapt. They compensate. They patch gaps. They manage appearances.
They keep things moving.


Inside the system, these responses make complete sense. 

Over time, however, adaptation without orientation carries a cost. Capacity drains. Judgment narrows. Agency erodes.


This is where our work begins.

We focus on restoring adaptive integrity,  the ability to respond to change without losing orientation or judgment.

Before changing behavior, we work to understand what someone is actually responding to.
Because clarity comes before action.

The first step is making sense of what you’re actually responding to.

Start with an Insight Session

How We Look at Work

Our Lens of the Modern Workplace

We start with how conditions shape behaviour, and what it takes to restore coherence when those conditions no longer hold.

We study behaviour in context, not in isolation.

Instead of asking,
“Why are people acting this way?”
we ask,
“What conditions make this behaviour a rational response right now?”


Our interest is not in blaming systems or excusing behaviour.
It is in understanding how people actively participate inside 

the conditions they are operating within, and the choices 

they are making, consciously or not.


When coherence breaks down, people adapt.

Those adaptations may be deliberate or habitual, strategic or improvised, temporary or sustained. Looking at behaviour this way allows responsibility, agency, and system dynamics to be examined at the same time, rather than trading one off for the other.

Why a Coherence Lens Helps

Better Insight, Better Decisions

A coherence lens helps make sense of what people are responding to before asking them to change how they respond. It allows us to see 

what is personal, what is structural, and what is being carried in between. 

When those distinctions are clear, people can participate deliberately instead of reacting by default.


 Applied across individual, team, and organizational levels, a coherence lens supports clearer judgement under pressure. It supports better judgment, more grounded choices, and actions that fit the reality people are actually navigating. This lens underpins the Reclaim Method.

How Our Capacity Freezes

Absurd Conditions Have Consequences

When unresolved conditions persist, people don’t stop working. They adapt. We call these conditions squeeze conditions. They arise when decisions stall, priorities conflict, and authority is unclear. The contradictions do not resolve. They get carried forward.


Inside squeeze conditions, people create workarounds, smooth over gaps, and perform competence to keep things functional. We call these responses squeeze plays. They are intelligible, predictable adaptations to conditions that refuse to settle.


This is what we mean by behaving badly. Not misconduct or incompetence. It happens when humans adapt inside systems with unresolved decisions, unclear accountability, that get shifted downward.


Over time, when squeeze plays become the default way work gets done, adaptation turns into a trap. The same responses that stabilize the system also limit its ability to move. Capacity does not disappear. It freezes.


A capacity freeze is a protective state. It emerges as the system shifts into stabilization mode, conserving itself under persistent contradiction. Effort remains, but continuity of movement through uncertainty is lost. Decisions harden. Flexibility drops. The work continues, but flow does not.

This flow, is the system’s ability to carry judgment, decisions, and effort forward without constant friction or rework.


At the individual level, effort shifts from meaningful work to containment.
At the team level, it shows up as friction, rework, and weakened trust.
At the organizational level, it appears as stalled change and resources spent managing symptoms instead of building capacity.


Like a river under ice, pressure builds upstream while movement downstream slows. Nothing is wrong with the work. The conditions have changed its state.

How We Build Capacity - Reclaim Method

Reclaim Develops Adaptive Integrity

Reclaim is the method that underpins this work.

It is a practical system for translating orientation into situated action. Reclaim helps people move from noticing squeeze conditions to responding deliberately, with clarity, judgment, and agency intact. 

Over time, it rebuilds capacity that has been quietly leaking away.


At the center of the method is to help sustain Adaptive Integrity:
the capacity to navigate competing demands without consistently losing clarity, judgement, agency, or a sense of self.


This capacity matters at every level.
For individuals, it restores footing under pressure.
For teams, it supports coordination without over-compensation.
For organizations, it enables movement without burning people out.

As work becomes more contradictory and less coherent, Adaptive Integrity is no longer optional.


It is foundational.

Insight Sessions are the first place people experience this work in practice. 

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